In my last blog post entitled “We Need To Get Behind Obama!” I said that I believe one of the reasons Obama won the election was because people voted tribally and put together a coalition of special interest groups in support of electing him.
Here is an example of tribalism. Please note, I am using this as an example to illustrate tribalism only because I am aware of this personally. I am not making any broad political, religious, or moral comments with this post (i.e. don’t send me hate mail accusing me of being a “this” or a “that”).

Joe, not his real name, is a friend of a friend. He’s a nice guy. We have common interests and I like him. Joe is gay and is in a long-term relationship. He and his partner live together, own a house and run a successful small business together.
Joe goes to church and is generally a moderate sort of fellow. His partner is a Conservative Jew, they support Israel, and regularly donate to the Jewish National Fund. They supported the war, although were worried about the financial and human costs associated with it. Like a lot of Angelinos, Joe and his partner are concerned about illegal immigration and how it is really draining the city, county, and state’s infrastructure.
Several months ago Joe said that he believes marriage is between a man and a woman, it was inappropriate to define marriage as a union between same-sex couples, and he was completely ok with domestic partnership laws to protect his civil rights. At the same time he expressed concern over California’s rising taxes and how that was hurting their business.
Joe voted for Obama because he wanted change. I didn’t but I understand why he did so and respect his intent. Joe voted against Proposition 8 (the Amendment to the California Constitution to ban gay marriage). I also voted against Prop 8. My motivation was that I didn’t think it is wise to change the Constitution on cultural or political whims, which is one important difference between America and a “Banana Republic“.
Joe said that he voted against Prop 8 because “I am personally aware of how [Prop 8] would discriminate against me and close friends!” Some would argue that Joe was voting tribally at this point: He was looking out only for his interests and not looking at the bigger picture. You could also argue that he voted the way he did because he is trying to protect the civil rights of a minority group. Again I’m not going to question his intent.
It is what happened next that I found fascinating and illustrates tribalism. Prop 8 passed in California by a slim majority and faces many lawsuits before it becomes the law of the land. There have been many protests.
Joe has started sending out emails to his network this week advising people to attend protest marches and rallies and get involved with a group called ANSWER LA (Act Now to Stop War & End Racism). In looking at ANSWER LA ’s website they are not only for overturning Prop 8 but for ”socialism and liberation” and are educating people on “why socialism is the only answer to the misery created by capitalism.” They are also for giving, in their words, the “racist state of Israel” back to the Palestinians, and legalizing illegal immigrants. As you might have guessed, they are against the “Imperialist” war.
Look at Joe’s character arc: Two months ago he didn’t agree with ANSWER LA’s stand on anything. Today he agrees with their stand on everything. I asked about his change of position. His reply was simple: “ANSWER LA supported Obama like I did. They are good for my people so I support them unconditionally.” Joe by his own admission now belongs to a tribe and he is putting his tribe’s interests above his own beliefs.
Joe isn’t unique. There are countless tribes in America and more developing every day. The tribes represent every imaginable race, creed, color, ethnicity, gender, disability, sexual orientation, deviation, like, dislike, political view, religion, social position, class, and interest. If we try to solve America’s problems by bringing together coalitions of tribes, we will never succeed. Success will come only when we unify and put the best interest our nation first, while of course protecting the rights of minority groups. A tribe is, what a tribe does.
The challenge for America is whether or not we will be a nation of tribes or one tribe!